When you’re a little girl, you daydream of what the man of your dreams will be like. How he’ll put you up on a pedestal, and nothing on earth will ever come before you and your needs.
Maybe you’re one of the lucky ones who’s Prince Charming is a living, breathing version of that dream. Or, maybe you’re still looking.
But for many of us, when the cotton-candy dreams of childhood wear off and families and/or bills take center stage, it is a beautiful thing to sink deep into the world of fictional boys.
As I was compiling this list of some of my favorite heroes in YA lit, I noticed that there is a pattern. And, from the popularity of some of these fellas, I’m thinking I’m not the only one. See if you notice the pattern:
“Loving you has never been the problem. What’s troubling me is how loving you may never be enough”
“My beautiful queen. Your entire court is staring at you, and I can’t blame them.”
“Choosing to be with you, isn’t a difficult decision, Jacqueline…It’s easy. Incredibly easy.”
“I don’t know. Just because someone’s pretty doesn’t mean she’s decent. I’m not into appearances. I like flaws, I think they make things interesting.”
“I might be in love with you. I’m waiting until I’m sure to tell you, though.”
“You are the only thing I have that is neither duty nor obligation, the only thing I chose for myself. The only thing I want. ”
“You are everything.”
“Wait until next time. I’ll do things that’ll make you lose control within seconds.”
“I tell you that I don’t want this to end. I don’t want to land and reach the real world, because I like our world up here better.”
“Clary, since the first time I saw you, I have belonged to you completely. I still do. If you want me.”
“I honestly have no idea how to live without you.”
“I didn’t know I was lost until you found me. I didn’t know what alone was until the first night I spent without you in my bed. You’re the one thing I’ve got right. You’re what I’ve been waiting for, Pigeon.”
Did you pick up on the theme?
A hefty percent of these male leads are the all-consuming, obsessive boyfriends that in real life would smother their ladies to insanity.
I feel kind of ashamed of it, because I am not a clingy person AT ALL. Nor do I think of myself as the type of woman who NEEDS her man to make her feel whole. But, women all over the planet have swooned for Edward Cullen and Travis Maddox. The relationships between Edward and Bella and Travis and Abby are obsessive, all-consuming affairs skating on the unhealthy side.
I’ve come to the conclusion that the reason we fall for these literary heart throbs is because in our deepest hearts, it’s fun to still fantasize about having someone to love us with that level of fiery intensity.
Who would make it on your Top Ten?
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